If your child wants to sign up for dance, who pays for it? Some parents divide extracurricular activities into the same percentages that they distribute out of pocket for medical expenses. Be sure to discuss this and include it in the custody agreement. If you do not reach an agreement with the other parent, the court will make custody decisions for you. In this case, you can present a proposed custody agreement to demonstrate your wishes to the judge. The custody contract should describe in detail what picking up and returning to and from one`s parents` home will look like. Who will be the basic medical care of the child? Who carries the child in their health insurance? How long does the insurance organization reasonably have to make a copy of the current insurance card available to the other parent? Many custody agreements contain a pre-emption clause that states that «each party has the first right to refuse to care for the minor child if the other party deems it necessary to have an alternative reference person for more than four (4) hours» (this exemplary language was found here). How far should I plan trips in advance? If children fly, how are their plane tickets paid? Is there anyone who cannot travel with the children? For example, indicate the exact days on which each parent will have the child. Remember that children are free for school holidays, take this data into account in your visit calculations. Do you want to do all the communication through a third-party app such as Our Family Assistant? If so, indicate this in the custody agreement. For an example of how to integrate the use of Our Family Wizard into childcare agreements, click here. Dealing with a family business is emotionally draining, financially exhausting, complicated, confusing and expensive, whether you get along with your spouse or squeeze your throat, whether you have a lawyer or lawyer or not, how much education you have, how much money or how many children you have.
It can also be difficult to get accurate and clear information, as it seems that everyone has their own agenda to give you their opinion. Your friends give you advice based on their experience, and each family law case is so different that it can be difficult, even dangerous, to generalize it. Lawyers give you information to convince you that you need their services (and pay them a lot of money). The media gives you information about celebrities with endless sums of money. The Internet gives you so much information that it is impossible to determine what exactly is. You can also attach additional information about your child`s specific needs, training, medical information, etc. .